Recently,
I emailed this message to my daughter: “I had an intimate moment with a tall
blonde,” but then I added, “and your mother was sitting next to me.” When Sarah got the email, she laughed because
she worked for Starbucks. For those of
you who are unfamiliar with the language of Starbucks, a “tall blonde” is a small,
medium roast coffee.
Starbucks
has one of the numerous “languages” that we speak in our country. I’ve learned from my foster daughter that in
Ebonics, a crib is not a baby’s bed and a grill is not something you cook
on. I’ve also been told that texting is
another language and the Pidgin English that was despised by my English
teachers, while I was growing up, is now an official language—Hawaiian Creole.
Sometimes
humans use language to communicate within a closed community; however, I think
that the purpose of language is to share ourselves with others. We want to know one another because we desire
to have a relationship with each other.
With this in mind, the purpose of the church is to make God known
(Ephesians 3:10-11) in a language
that the world will understand (II Corinthians 5:20)
so God can reconcile all people to Himself (II Corinthians 5:18-19).
James
tells us one way that we can accomplish this task. He says, “Be quick to listen, slow to speak
and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous
life that God desires” (James 1:19, 20).
Eugene Peterson interprets these verses as, “Lead with your ears, follow
up with your tongue, and let anger straggle in the rear. God’s righteousness doesn’t grow from human
anger.” All too often we are easily
offended and angered by the language of the world. What I hear James saying in this context is,
“Chill out. If you want to be in good
standing with God, seek to understand others.”
I
often see myself in others when I submit to James’ admonition. In doing so, I am also reminded that my
actions do not always reflect the way I feel or think. Besides that, I don’t often understand my
inconsistencies (Romans 7:15), but I
try not to let my thoughts take up residence there. Instead, I try to rest in the promises of
God. I also know that God sees the
inconsistencies in me (Proverbs 16:2), but I am also assured that the Holy
Spirit speaks to the Father for me in a language They understand, to accomplish
Their purpose in me (Romans 8:26-27). I not only find refuge in these words, but a
doorway to compassion is opened for me.
When
we try to understand where a person is coming from, we will probably learn to
communicate God’s message more fully. In
the process we may even get to know ourselves, and yes, God even better.

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